Here's to your betterment from some of my experiences!
Big lessons are concealed in big experiences, especially the painful ones. Though my experiences and lessons might be different than yours, my goal is for you to gain knowledge and perspective from my lessons and build upon them to make improvements in your own life. Change and growth is an inevitable part of life. You may as well gain knowledge from other people's experiences, apply it, and be intentional with who and how you want to be.